5 promises I want from my Man!

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Some promises I want from my Man!

Relationship goals

Husbands…Highly crafty people, who usually tend to handle up their wives/girlfriends with ample delicacy & with lots of tongue twisters all the time around. With the perfect dossiers of “Uff we forgot” / “A sandwich between 2 females”, these men have grown exponentially out of the feminine world. But they still need to learn a lot from the women surrounding them, be it in personal or professional world.

But whatever might be the scene, these men have always managed to enter a woman’s heart & grab nearly 100% of it, be it with their love and care or humor or wittiness. They sense us like the roses & are always ready to spread our fragrances. It is they who make us look more beautiful. It is definitely they, who pamper us, be it in the form of father or boyfriends or husbands. Their qualities are pretty distinct but yes special for us, for a woman. Though they can’t understand & predict women mostly, [that’s what I love the most], they still are adorable beings.

Promises here :

There are few promises which I would love my partner to hold on for always. Promises are NOT meant to be BROKEN, but to be KEPT alive forever”.

1. Ensure making me feel special :

Do appreciate the way we manage tasks, be it at home or at offices. Appreciation doesn’t costs a penny but gives a sense of satisfaction to the hard work put in. We are always juggling with raising kids, managing house chores and professional tasks and trying 200% best in all of it. A positive sentence or even a Thanks will make me happy:).

2. Speak up your heart & mind :

Just like we “Crazy chatterbox women do”. I would love to hear everything from simplest to the complex. Instead of keeping every crap in heart, it’s always the best remedy to speak up & have conclusive discussions. Don’t get boggled up by having discussions between your brain & heart only. I’m there to hold & share some insightful points for your complexities.

3. Don’t ever let that passion of “Foodi-ness” ride out of your head :

I just love the way you experiment with foods , anytime and anywhere. It amazes me & knocks my heart heavily! Keep that passion ever growing.

4. Promise me a trip around the world :

Well not in 80 days but it can be in next 10 years. That’s a selfish desire, but then this is for my soul. Travelling & sporting adventure is my passion. You’ve been supporting me in it, but let’s promise to be aggressive, life’s short. Make me go around. I’m waiting surprise tickets to a big list getting bigger every month:).

5. Continue your Baby Love :

Your love for kid is just awesome. I get jealous of it, just kidding. A kid seeks so much of happiness, is a bundle of innocence. For kid his parents are the only world, around which he wants to revolve & evolve. Your empathy, endurance and understanding towards him and me, as a mama is just great. Keep that spirit high.

Lastly, a true confession & a promise never to let it die. I don’t desire your credit cards or flaunt big shopping fantasies, I don’t demand those biggies of the world. But yes, I want you to love me forever, no matter how harsh circumstances may come!

Every Man needs a woman & every woman needs a man. Not just when there is a mess in the chess & a queen protects the King, but even while strolling on the lanes in night we’re aware of the sense of protection in you!

Cheers to this Great Bonding!

26 thoughts on “5 promises I want from my Man!

  1. I love these promises. My husband and I have become so ritual, that we always take annual vacations, go out every Saturday night, whether it’s just an hour away to eat or just a drive out of town. These, I hope, never end.

  2. This is so sweet! I have the same thoughts towards my husband. We do like to travel but with his job it’s hard for him to find time off.

  3. A trip around the world sounds pretty incredible! I agree that ppreciation is so important in relationships, particularly when you have a lot going on and are raising a family together.

  4. These are such sweet promises that essentially keeps the passion in a relationship burning. It’s the little things that truly count. Thanks for sharing!

  5. That’s such a nice post with some lovely ideas. For sure, everyone wants to feel special ! It’s really important to enjoy the little things with each others. My husband and I like to discover at least one or two new countries every year… We started to travel 15 years ago 😉 and we still have so many countries to visit together !

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